Communication Guidelines (a.k.a. the Acceptable Use & Communications Policy)

You can read all the website pages, view all the images on this website, and other content that which is available to the public. You are free to download, print, or store individual pages or files for personal reference only, so long as you refrain from repackaging, selling, or incorporating it into any commercial product or service without my permission. You can also share links to any pages of the website freely for informational purposes, as long as the original content stays hosted on the site and is not altered.

Any use that involves changing, aggregating, and republishing the website's material to create something entirely new or different for the purposes of making a profit, advertising, or any other business activity is not allowed without my explicit permission (the answer is highly likely to be no).

Private, members‑only, or restricted sections are a different story entirely and may be covered by different terms.

You may provide content to the site or its operator(s) that: 

1. Complies with the applicable laws of the United States and the United Kingdom, including any relevant statutes, regulations, and case law. For context, this website is hosted by Payhip, which is incorporated in England and Wales, so U.K. law may apply. The person who operates this website (Cam R.) is located in the United States, so American law may apply. For additional terms, see the Terms of Service here.

2. Contains your original work, or at least contains a license or some other explicit permission or legal right to use and distribute it. Copyrighted work may be reported in accordance with the DMCA (or potentially the Copyright, Designs and Patents Act of 1988 if a particular case is based in the U.K.).

3. Is accurate, verified, and not knowingly false or misleading.

4. Does not infringe on the intellectual property, privacy, reputation, or other protected rights of the website operator(s) or of any other third party. (Note: some content may be covered under various Creative Commons licenses. Please check individual items for specific licensing information.)

5. Is otherwise respectful and courteous.

By submitting content, you affirm that it meets all of the above in a sufficient manner.

Note: Artificial intelligence cannot be copyrighted according to U.S. law, and so the website operator(s) strictly prohibit the sending and sharing of text, imagery, etc. that has been AI generated using Large Language Models (LLMs). Messages and other content sent that have been generated with AI or contain undisclosed AI will be ignored and deleted.

You may contact the website's operator(s) only in ways that directly relate to the purpose of the site, its content, or the services provided. Communications should be clear, respectful, and relevant to a legitimate inquiry, request for support, feedback, criticism, or other matter that helps you use the site as intended. Irrelevant, advertising, or spam messages are not permitted.

Basically, don't upload any massively large files and don't try to tamper with the website to manipulate the limits or anything else.

To report abuse, email: abuse@untilted.lol

No other means of communication will be accepted.

With regards to this policy, the following is strictly prohibited:

1. Prejudice (an attitude or belief that is often negative and based on preconceived notions about a group of people) and discrimination (actions or behaviors that result from prejudice) OF ANY KIND (including slurs, implicit/benevolent discrimination, etc.).

This covers, but is not limited to: race, ethnicity, color, religion, sex, sexuality, gender identity, gender expression, national origin, educational level, disability, mental health status, physical health status, name, appearance, height, weight, employment status, citizenship status, genetic information, species, age, or any other (legally or otherwise) protected characteristic.

2. Harassment (as defined by behaviors intended to disturb, upset, or intimidate individuals or groups)

This also includes pursuing someone with multiple questions (such as asking for sources when that has been addressed already) with an intent to exhaust people, provoke frustration, and make them look unreasonable.

If someone tells you to stop communicating with them, stop. Continuing may and will be considered stalking.

3. General disrespect, including:

Ad hominem attacks (as defined by attacking the character or other attributes of any person)

Trolling (as defined by the act of deliberately provoking or upsetting others online, often for amusement or to elicit a reaction)

Retaliation (as defined by the act of responding to an action, often perceived as harmful or unjust, with a counteraction)

Profanity (as defined by language that is considered offensive, vulgar, or disrespectful, including swear words, curse words, or slurs that can express strong emotions such as anger, frustration, or surprise) in any and all forms, including foreign-language profanity.

Any suggestive or passive-aggressive comment that the site operator(s) you're communicating with may potentially find disrespectful. If you want to say something, ask if it's okay if you can say it to me.

【IMPORTANT NOTE: Regarding tone-policing (as defined by complaining about someone's tone in a discussion because it's perceived as heated, disrespectful, etc. as a means to silence, marginalize, or invalidate that someone): I want to start off by saying that such behavior is prohibited.

That being said, there is a substantive difference between engaging in such behavior as a means to shut the speaker down in those three aforementioned ways and pointing out that someone's specific delivery may, intentionally or not, greatly upset or trigger someone within the audience.

Are the triggered "just" protecting themselves from discomfort? Not necessarily. For all we know they could genuinely feel unsafe, especially if they've been through verbal abuse or repeated exposure to profoundly harmful experiences or even just secondhand content.

Even if there isn't any immediate physical harm. I know I've personally been through verbal abuse a lot in school, so this separates me from those who merely feel "uncomfortable".

Given these nuances, I may make accommodations and may put my content over a Content Warning or change some things if the requester can demonstrate a genuine self-reported impact on their well-being (for example, a disability, mental health condition, or trauma) This does not require any strict documentation, just any sign that you're being genuine about it. Of course, we shouldn't have to prove our sensitivities to others just to coexist with everyone else.

For example, if a word I use bothers you, your reason should go beyond being seen as overly concerned with formal rules for me to change how I talk about something.

If your request is in good faith, we can discuss it together. If not, it may be denied, especially if your attempts to get others to consider your perspective are unconstructive or toxic. I will treat requests as in good faith unless there is clear evidence of the opposite happening.

Still, in any case, I recognize that not everyone wants to "build resilience" their way out of things (which I personally view as simplistic advice that doesn't account for multiple factors).】

4. Threatening communications, even in jest. It will be reported to law enforcement accordingly and immediately!

5. Suggestive comments that attempt to engage in any of the prohibited activities (statements or remarks that imply or hint at inappropriate, offensive, or otherwise unacceptable content).

This includes making a comment that indirectly refers to a specific person or group of people without mentioning them by name in a way that is demeaning or offensive, regardless of who is the target and regardless of intent.

If you feel that your comment meant no harm, please provide a written explanation that explains your comment in the clearest way possible ASAP.

Legal, protected, or otherwise:

a. It is prohibited to send explicit content that includes any text, image, video, audio, or other media that depicts or describes sexual acts, genitalia, or erotic behavior in a graphic or detailed manner. This includes "shock" content.

b. It is discouraged to send sensitive content that uses suggestive language, double‑meaning, or implied sexual references intended to arouse or stimulate the audience, even if the content is not overtly graphic. This includes any non-explicit fetish content that skirts the lines of being sexual.

The website operator(s) reserve the right to block such content. Educational, medical, or artistic content that is informational, factual, and non‑erotic may be permitted, provided that it is clearly labeled and does not contain gratuitous sexual detail.

Even though LGBTQ+ topics inherently involve sexuality, we do not censor these topics as long as all of the above criteria are fulfilled and are legal. Artistic nudity is not prohibited.

Illegal content will be reported to the necessary authorities.

This includes: publishing personal information of, or revealing the operator of a pseudonymous/anonymous online account of someone without their consent (doxxing), revealing private posts and other personally identifiable information without permission, using any personally identifiable name other than the site operator(s)'s preferred name in situations that may violate their privacy (unless legally required to do so), digging up people's pasts, and the like.

Impersonation of the site operator(s) or anyone else (as defined by the act of pretending to be someone else, often with the intent to deceive or mislead others.) will be publicly called out.

Spamming (as defined by the practice of sending unsolicited and often irrelevant messages)

and

Advertising (promotional messages that the website operator(s) did not solicit or find relevant)

will be ignored/filtered out and potentially reported.